How to Start a Conversation with New People

Start with a “hello,” and simply tell the new person your name then ask them theirs. Offer your hand to shake, upon his/her responding to you. (If you go to other countries, greet the person in tune with the particular culture). If you already know the person, skip this step and proceed to step.

Look around. See if there is anything worth pointing out. Sure, talking about the weather is a cliche, but if there’s something unusual about it–bam!–you’ve got a great topic of conversation.

Offer a compliment. Don’t lie and say you love someone’s hair when you think it’s revolting, but if you like his or her shoes, or a handbag, say so. A sincere compliment is a wonderful way to get someone to warm up to you. But be careful not to say something so personal that you scare the person off or make him or her feel uncomfortable. It is best not to compliment a person’s looks or body.

Ask questions! Most people love to talk about themselves — get them going. “What classes are you taking this year?” “Have you seen (Insert-Something- Here)? What did you think of it?” Again, keep the questions light and not invasive. Do not ask too many questions if he or she is not responsive to them.

Jump on any conversation- starters he or she might offer; take something he or she has said and run with it. Agree, disagree, ask a question about it, or offer an opinion, just don’t let it go by without notice.

Look your newfound friend in the eye, it engenders trust (but don’t stare). Also, use the person’s name a time or two during the conversation; it will help you remember the name, and will draw the person’s attention to what you are talking about.

Don’t forget to smile and have fun with your conversation!

Tips

Just relax. Chances are that whatever small-talk you’re making isn’t going to stick out in anyone’s mind a few months from now. Just say whatever comes into your head, so long as it’s not offensive or really weird. (Unless, of course, the person you’re attempting to converse with is into weird stuff.)
Remember, if you think of something in your head while you’re talking, it’s probably related.

It will help if you watch some TV, listen to radio shows, and/or read a lot — newspapers, magazines, and/or books. You need to have some idea of what is going on in the world. Also remember and plan to share anything you like, think is funny, or find intriguing. This is building up your own library of things that might be helpful to another person during a conversation someday. It will be amazing how you thread these interesting things when you least expect it, and make conversation an adventure instead of a dreadful task. If you take it to the next step and say things that you want the person to think of as adding value, and keep to yourself things that the person might not, you are actually honing your own personality to be appealing to the other person, and what is a greater act of kindness than that.
If you are shy, it will be helpful to have thought about a topic or two that you could talk about.

Follow the lead that your listener is expressing. If he or she appears interested, then continue. If he or she is looking at a clock or watch, or worse, looking for an escape strategy, then you have been going on for too long.
Interesting and funny quotes or facts can lighten things up, and make way for things to talk about. You could also use a set of conversation starter question cards for inspiration.

If talking over the phone, keep the person involved in the conversation at all costs. If you can’t come up with a good topic, try the “questions” game. Just keep asking them questions; random questions work just fine as long as they are appropriate. This technique can save a phone conversation. The questions should be open ended questions that do not require a yes or no answer. For example “How do you know the hosts?” This way you can ask questions about what they just said or follow up with how you know the hosts (for example) instead of acting as if the conversation is an interrogation.

Half of an effective conversation is the way you non-verbally communicate, and not necessarily what you say. Practice better non-verbal skills that are friendly and confident.

Read newspapers and magazines to increase your knowledge so you can have more interesting things to talk about.

Happy Talking..

TRUE LOVE

TRUE LOVE means:
To FEEL someone in ever HEARTBEAT,
To FIND someone in every THOUGHT,
To SEE someone with CLOSED EYES,
and to MISS someone without reason :)

Reasons to love a women

you can feel her CARE in form of a sister.
you can feel her WARMTH in form of a friend.
you can feel her PASSION in form of a beloved.
you can feel her DEDICATION in form of a wife.
you can feel her DIVINITY in form of a mother.
you can feel her BLESSINGS in form of grand'ma.
yet she is so TOUGH too.
Her heart is So TENDER.
So NAUGHTY,
So Charming.
So Sharing,
So Melodious,
She is a Woman.
She is Life...
Respect Her.

Meanig of kiss

1. Kiss on the hand.... I adore you.
2. Kiss on the cheek... I just want to be friends.
3. Kiss on the neck... I want you.
4. Kiss on the lips... I love you.
5. Kiss on the ears...I am just playing.
6. Kiss anywhere else... lets not get carried away.
7. Look in your eyes... kiss me.
8. Playing with your hair... I can't live without you.
9. Hands on your waist... I love you too much to let you

so, what you are waiting for??

go ahead honey!!

AADAT NAHI RAHI

SAPNO SE DIL LAGANE KI AADAT NAHI RAHI,
HAR WAQT MUSKURANE KI AADAT NAHI RAHI,
YE SOCH KE KI KOI MANAANE NAHI AAYEGA,
AB HUME ROOTH JAANE KI AADAT NAHI RAHI

Difference between Somebody you Love"&"Somebody you Like"

1. In front of the person you love, your heart beats faster.

But in front of the person you like, you get happy.

2. In front of the person you love, winter seems like spring.

But in front of the person you like, winter is just beautiful winter.

3. If you look into the eyes of the one you love, you blush.

But if you look into the eyes of the one you like, you smile.

4. In front of the person you love, you can't say everything on your mind.

But in front of the person you like, you can.

5. In front of the person you love, you tend to get shy.

But in front of the person you like, you can show your own self.

6. You can't look straight into the eyes of the one you love.

But you can always smile into the eyes of the one you like.

7. When the one you love is crying, you cry with them.

But when the one you like is crying, you end up comforting.

8. The feeling of love starts from the eye.

But the feeling of like starts from the ear.


So if you stop liking a person you used to like, all you need to do is cover your ears.
But

If you try to close your eyes, love turns into a drop of tear and remains in your heart forever.

In a Search of love.

Find your love -for girls specially!!

Check out this..

1. Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot...

2. who calls you back when you hang up on him...

3. who will stay awake just to watch you sleep...

4. wait for the guy who kisses your forehead...

5. who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats...

6. who holds your hand in front of his friends...

7. who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you...

8. wait for the one who turns to his friends and says, "...that's her, or that's him"...

True love will knock on your heart and something good will happen to you.
It could happen anywhere. So get ready for the biggest shock of your life.
Just open your eyes and ears and get life partner.

Best wishes..

Love Quotes

Quotes Collection -Collection of romantic love quotes from famous authors, & other romantic sources. These love quotes are simply for showing your love. Scroll down to see the romantic love quotes.

Don't spend your life with someone you can live with - spend it with someone you can't live without. ~ Anon

Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future. ~ Paul Boese

A kiss is a lovely trick designed by nature to stop speech when words become superfluous. ~ Ingrid Bergman

You don't love a woman because she is beautiful, but she is beautiful because you love her. ~ Anon

True love stories never have endings. ~ Unknown
Love is not blind -- it sees more, not less. But because it sees more, it is willing to see less. ~ Rabbi J. Gordon

That best portion of a good man's life; his little, nameless, unremembered acts of kindness and love. ~ William WordsWorth

If it is your time, love will track you down like a cruise missile. ~ Lynda Barry

Teri mohabbat

Jo Teri Mohabbat Main Duniya Se Begana Tha
Woh Ek Tha Pagal Jo Tera Deewana Tha
Afsos Ke Tum Ne Mujh Ko Samjha Hi Nahi
Main To Tera Apna Tha, Nahi Koi Anjana Tha
Apna Bana ke Tum Ne Mujh Ko Akela Chor Diya
Ek Pal Main Rishta Tor Diya
Jo Ke Buhat Purana tha
Kehten Hain Ke Tumaray Dil Main Hain Zakham Beshumar
In Zakhmoo Ko Metanay Ke Liyen Is Dil Ko Tu Jalana Tha
Ab Kia Roona Hai 'challo Is Bewafai Per
Is Bewafa Sanam Se Acha Tu Ye Bewafa zamana Tha.

It's me

Nobody known its empty
This smile that I wear,
The real one is left in the past
Bcoz you have left me there.

Nobody knowns I'm crying
They wont even see my tears,
When they think that I'm laughing
I still wishing U were here.

Nobody knows its painful
They think that I'm strong,
They say that this wont kill me
But I wonder if they were wrong.

Nobody known I'm praying
That you will change my mind,
They think that I had let you go
When you left me behind.

Nobody knows I miss you
they think I feel set free,
But I feel like I'm bound with chains
Trapped in the mystery.

Nobody knows I need you
They say I can do it on my own,
but they dont know I'm crying
When I'm all alone.


from various sources.

Love is...

Love is...

being happy for the other person

when they are happy

being sad for the person when they are sad

being together in good times and

being together in bad times

Love Is The Source Of Strength

Love is...

being honest with yourself at all times

telling, listening, respecting the truth,

and never pretending

Love Is The Source Of Reality.

Love is....

an understanding that is so complete that

you feel as if you are a part

of the other person

just the way they are

and not trying to change them

to be something else

Love Is The Source Of Unity

Love is...

the freedom to pursue your own desires

while sharing your experiences

with the other person the growth of one individual alongside of and

together with the growth of another individual

Love Is The Source Of Success

Love is...

the excitement of planning things together

the excitement of doing things together

Love Is The Source Of The Future

Love is...

the fury of the stormthe calm in the rainbow

Love Is The Source Of Passion

Love is...

giving and taking in a daily situation

being patient with each other's needs and desires

Love Is The Source Of Sharing

Love is...

knowing that the other person will always be with you

regardless of what happens missing the other person when

they are away but remaining near in the heart at all times

Love Is The Source Of Security

Love is the Source of Life

Love Is Forever!